Couples change only when…

1. They hurt enough they have to.

1. They learn enough they want to.

   1. They receive enough they are able to.

1. If you always do what you have always done, you will get what you’ve always gotten.

   1. Do you want help?

      1. Do you want change?

   2. Why do you want to change?

   3. Why are you hurting?

1. How do we change? (Psalm 127:1; Ephesians 2:13; Ephesians 2:14)

   1. Say the right words.

   2. Read the right books.

   3. Listen to the right people.

   4. Be with the right people.

   5. Do the right things.